Why Choose To Be Happy?


This morning, i thought of this idea of asking other people to write an entry so that i could publish it in my blog since i am always lack of ideas nowadays (hahaha tak saya tak paksa okay). So, yep. I managed to talked to few of my friends on writing whatever they want and I'll publish it here. Alhamdulillah, my friends are all very supportive and I already received my first one just now. And this person told me to keep her unkown, well here we go.

*write me as an anon*

Why choose to be happy?

Assalamualaikum everyone. Surely i wrote this because a friend of mine offered me to share my thoughts. 

I found that interesting and so here I am, to share my thoughts.

So firstly, alhamdulillah for everything Allah had given to us. And my post today is about Why should we choose to be happy? Everyone has their own problem. No one had no problem. Surely everyone does have. Even new born baby also have their own problem;

"mummy I'm hungry"
but they couldn't see their mummy yet.

Same goes to kids and adults. How do you manage yourself when you're facing problems?

"I ignore "

That's great.

"I overthink"

Surely I did that too sometimes.

"I pray to Allah, telling Him everything "

That's the point; we should do that.

Lately, I thought of giving up in life. There's a huge problem attacking me like somehow the grenade fall from nowhere. And i didn't manage to throw it away before it explode. And boom! It exploded first and I broke. (Does it sounds too hyperbolic? )

My father is marrying another woman. I figured it out by myself. That hurts me more than blades did. I thought, why didn't he tell me?  Why he hid it from me and my other siblings? What have i done? Am I not good enough for him? I hated that woman more. He stole my happiness. I cursed many times. I hate her so much.    

From that moment, I started to hate everything around me. I hated myself. I hated my family. I hated my parents. I hated my friends. I hated strangers. I hated everything.

My giving up somehow making the  gap between me and Allah even farther. And then one day, I realised. I blamed everyone and I somehow blame my creator. He was always there through my thick and thin. But I'm only khusyuk during my gloomy days. I felt bad for that. I don't know how but as the time pass, and i prayed everyday to Him, and finally I saw myself wasn't as gloomy nor sad as before. I was happy and am happy until now. And i started to redha for everything happened. And I chose to be happy and that will be my forever choice.

The other reason for me to choose being happy was, there's a friend that she's with me when i was miserable and she advised me. And I was moved by her words and finally I'm okay.

And now, I'm trying to be positive as much as i could. I dislike negative vibes to be honest. So I keep on saying positive things to myself to make me more happy, I guess? And i hope that my family will be happy and we could make bond with my father's another wife. I'm looking forward for it (even it'll hurt me somehow ) at least my father is happy, then I'm okay.

Kick off all negative vibes, keep on being positive and always choose to be happy because Allah will help you with that.


Hello ♥

Patience Is Beautiful

Assalamualaikum dan bismillahirrahmanirrahim :)
“Kalau kita tak pernah segerakan perintah Allah, kenapa tanya mengapa Allah tak segerakan hajat kita?"

(This is going to be a very short entry - kot)

I figured that I just need to start all over. Because reading back all my previous entries, it just does not feels right. It is true, that as you grow up, your perspective towards everything will change. Whatever it is, lets us all hope that Allah will ease everything for us in the future and may we be a better person than who we used to be yesterday. Allahu yusahil.


Lets do this.



Just note that my future post(s)' - who knows if this is going to be the only entry that I will write for this 2015 hahaha - topics are going to vary. From life issues, food, movies, religion and the lists goes on. If you are expecting me to write what you think you like, but then you realized that you don't really like me ; I'M SORRY. people say do not put your expectation too high if you do not want to be disappoint.

I stumbled upon this particular hadis this morning :
Narrated Abu Said Al Khudri: Some Ansari persons asked for (something) from Allah’s Apostle and he gave them. They again asked him for (something) and he again gave them. And then they asked him and he gave them again till all that was with him finished. And then he said “If I had anything, I would not keep it away from you. (Remember,) whoever abstains from asking others, Allah will make him contented, and whoever tries to make himself self-sufficient, Allah will make him self-sufficient. And whoever remains patient, Allah will make him patient. Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience.”Sahih Al-Bukhari – Book 24 Hadith 548 

Why assobru jamil? Well sisters, and brothers, patience is beautiful, no? Whatever situation Allah is putting you in right now, He must have His own reason (a good one obviously). You just have to be patient. Go through it. And you will surely thank Allah later on. You might cry and feel you do not understand why are you being put in such situation now, but in the future, trust me, you will be grateful for every single thing that happened.

“Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui.”
(al-Baqarah 2:216)

There. Allah had even stated it in the al-Quran! chin up everyone!

Ujian adalah guru yang tidak bercakap, tetapi ia sangat mengajar dan mendidik. Ujian terkecil apalagi terbesar adalah takdir Allah. Yang mempunyai maksud tertentu. Kerana jahilnya kita, apabila ditimpa ujian samada secara langsung dari Allah atau melalui orang lain, kita mula melatah.




Be strong and keep holding on. When the going gets tough, only the tough gets going. Sado kan dirimu!

And remember, patience is beautiful.

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